:::-::-: ReVoLuTiOn Of WiLsOn ..I wIll sUrvIvE.. :-::-:::

:::Sunday, September 30, 2007:::

[Family in Shambles @ 10:10 AM]

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I found a more effective alarm clock .... I woke up today to my Elder Sis and Mum's "arrows" Its so stupid actually... Three fully grown adults acting like childrens.

"Problems manifest on each other. A small problem not iron out will only come back and haunt you... only bigger this time" - Tan Yong Wei, YCC Leader.

Both of them just can't see each other eye to eye.. I ask my mum how much does she understand my sis and to my surprise, my mum talks about my sis when she was only 19 years old , where everything was still peace and calm..

My Mum didn't really had a good life either.. being brought up in a traditional chinese family where the males get everything, females are to marry and have childrens.

She has been working all her life, saving whatever she earn like the past generation would do. My dad passed on in 1995 and she has been alone all these while. Saving and skrimping only to put all 3 of us into University. (My sis should remember this.. She fed and sent you all the way to uni. )

I can't say my mum is wrong, but at the same time, my sis isn't wrong either.

Da Jie, Mummy has no ill intentions. She just does not understand you. I know you tried, but if you give up now, the problem will never be solve. I understand that the pace of work is more stressfull and can really exhaust people totally. Life is a struggle... but you can see it in two ways, a struggle or a battle. a struggle means you surrender to what life throws to you. A battle means you fight... fight for what your believe you want in life. You have read more self help/motivitation books than I have.. but are you really doing it? I can't say cos I'm not you but the mentality say otherwise.

I respect the decisions that you make. If you do not want a start a family , then you have to be prepared that people will give you horrible remarks.Be sure of what you want,

What would you feel if mummy just pass on (touch wood) tomorrow? would you regret not taking care of her ? or would you be happy that no one disturbs you anymore?